Young Mommy
2009-04-07 10:30:36 UTC
Lately though her behavior is becoming a problem.. I have tried several methods of discipline and nothing seems to be working. Yesterday I did something I had never done before. Her daddy has given her a spanking a couple of times, like the time she ran out in the road and when she told him to shut up. I had never done it until yesterday though. She was just out of hand yesterday. I am in school, and finishing up my degree, and I am taking an online class. Paige was running around the house and just misbehaving and not listening. I sat her in timeout and she had a fit. I had just printed off a report for my friend to proof read for me. She got it and acted like she was going to tear it in the middle of a tantrum. I told her to put it and down and sit back down or I was going to spank her. She ripped it and threw on the floor.
I pulled out the kitchen chair and told her to come to me. She looked at me as if to say are you kidding me? I sat her on my lap and told her I loved her with all my heart but this kind of behavior was going to stop. I had short talk with her then turner her over and spanker her hiney.
She cried her eyes out and I felt like such a mean mommy? It didn't hurt her that much, but I think she was just suprised that I spanked her. As much as I hated it, I can tell a difference today. Her behavior twoards me has automatically improved.
I have tried everything else.. I never pictured myself spanking her. I don't want to be the mean mommy, but I do not want a bad behaved child who will not listen either. Did I do ok? Can anyone give me advice?