Is there always a small doubt about having another baby?

Question

Me and my partner both really want a second child. My daughter is 2 and we are both great parents. I love being a mum but I HATED being pregnant. Theres just small doubt in my mind, im scared of complications with pregnancy, depression, labour (again) and anything that could happen really. Is there always something in your mind that scares you. I am 100% sure and ready to have a baby im just scared :-S

Am I the only 1?

Sarah x

Answer 1

Every pregnancy is different; because everyone is different. You had a bad experience this time, next time might be better. Your not alone I've been pregnant four times and I could tell you some truly horrid stories.



Mind over matter through, try taking natural remedies to combat the moodiness like fish oil, vitamin D and B complex. To help with morning sickness, try ginger. I put it into my lemonade and would drink it hot and cold...it helped me. Also there is way to help with labour, try hypnosis, or the bradley method. I used a TENS machine to help deliver my last child naturally, it didn't take away all the pain but the back pain went away. I could not have gotten through without that machine it made the contractions bearable.

Answer 2

You're not alone at all. I think most every parent has doubts with every pregnancy no matter how many times they've been through it. I just had my 3rd, and I had doubts and scares with her as well as my first and second. I hated being pregnant too, but I'd do it again if I was given the gift of being a mom for a 4th child. It's worth it to me in the end, and you'll feel the same way, probably like you did with your first. Good luck trying to conceive and with everything that comes with it :)

Answer 3

No you are not the only one, having a second baby is great and is much more easier because you will be much more inform, and you can have the shot to numb your during delivery time that just what we have to go through if we want another baby, I holler and scream when my second one was born because I had a natural birth, and I scream about I don't want another baby no more, but now I wish I had more. so you will want to think this out real good before its to late.

Answer 4

Noooooo. I'm scared to get pregnant again. It happened so easily last time. There is something scary about it, but if you feel ready to take the plunge: do it. It'll all be worth it once you get to be the mom of two little ones.

Answer 5

No your not alone. they reason you have all these doubts is because 2nd time round you know whats coming, you didn't with your first. your pregnancy an labour could be completly different this time aswell. so dont not do it just because of these little niggles!