Do you think parents should let their kids see porn, not promote it, but like, tolerate if they secretly know.?

Question

I dont know how to word this, do you think parents should ground their kids if they found out their kid was watching porn? No rude comments please, just real answers

Answer 1

There are statistics out there that suggest that too much exposure to sexual content, and specifically porn, on television is causing boys to have erectile dysfunction when they actually go to have sex for the first time because of unrealistic expectations and exposure.



So, do I think you should ground him (or her). No. I think that you should talk to them about the realism of sex and pornography and the negative effects that it can and does have on young people, mairrages, and life in general. Punishing kids for something like that doesn't have a good effect, but I don't think you should ignore it

Answer 2

The answer depends first upon the age of the kid. Young kids can be psychologically damaged by pornographic images; therefore as a parent, one must do everything possible to shield the child from it.



At any age, however, if your child is seeking out pornography, you should engage the child in discussion about it, and should not ignore it. A good starting point might be, "This material portrays men and women in a way that is not true to life. If I were you, I would not watch too much of it because it can make you think of people in a way which is just not correct. It can affect the attitude you have with others in a negative way." The danger of pornography to older children is that it blurs the boundaries of acceptable behavior in the mind of the child.

Answer 3

Depends on how old they are and how often it is occurring. If the children are 14 and under, I would definitely have a talk with them and tell them it is not acceptable. I would also put a block on every television so that any program with mature content requires a password to watch. (Call your cable company).

If they are older teens, it is natural if done sparingly. If your kid has become ritually obsessed, then I would install the block anyway. If you have discovered pornographic videos in their rooms, simply take them away without discussing it. They will be embarrassed enough that you found out that confrontation is not necessary, and will be more careful next time.

I would install a block immediately. It is natural to be curious, but it gets to a point where sometimes people can become addicted to pornography and everyone they look at, they can imagine him or her naked. Early sexual stimulation is not healthy for young children, especially if they decide they want to practice what they've seen with other kids. You do not want them becoming desensitized at the introduction of men and women having sex or putting so much emphasis on physical and empty affection. It is not a good role model for kids. Explain the unhealthiness of it to your kids, in a gentle way.

Answer 4

Actually the legality of it is in a gray area it is legal for an 18+ to purchase or own porn but no where in the law books does it say you have to be 18+ to view it with in the confines of your parents home. Its almost like being a nudist with young kids not similar but same in thought. If the parents feel the child can handle it as a tool for personal gratification then fine. I think the government has put its fingers into the rights of parents deciding how their children are raised way to much and as such society now as a whole is able to dictate what is and isn't allowed to be done with your child. If you want your kid to watch porn prior to 18 fine with me you want your kid to be raised a racist fine with as well the key word here is YOUR kid. What anyone else decides is there choice as well so just make sure if other kids are around you curb your normal habits.

Answer 5

The use of the word "kid" in this question concerns me.. Is this "kid" 10? 12? 14? 16? That makes a big difference. If he/she is at the age where a person should normally start having questions about sex or experimentng or masturbating, I don't think they should be punished. Being fascinated by porn is normal.

Answer 6

I know that is a hard thing to decide, definitely.



I know my brother was into porn while my dad knew, but I think he felt awkward to confront him. So he just kind of let him know that he knew without trying to stop him.



I strongly disagree with what he did and think every parent should confront every child about it if they find out. It's extremely embarassing, awkward and weird, but I think it has to be done.



It would be an even larger burden to watch a son or daughter grow up trying to satisfy themselves wrongly, the real world doesn't work that way. They need to know how to solve their problems the real way, and not lose themselves in that kind of garbage.



Does that make any sense at all?



I hope you got something out of this. :)



Good luck.

Answer 7

Hmm, that depends on the age of the child, and what kind of porn. For example, anyone under 15, nope, no porn for them, at all. But, my son (when he is 15) if he is watching normal, clean porn, I won't have a problem. Nothing violent or anything like that, but simple person on person porn, I would not have a problem.

Answer 8

I believe that a good parent would not allow their child to watch porn. I think that the consequence for the child possessing pornography would depend entirely on the child. Some children might not even need any discipline. All of the children need to be talked to about it and explained to about why it is not an appropriate thing for children to watch. For me, this reason is that it places unreasonable expectations and it steals their childhood away from them by replacing childish wonder with adult fantasies. This is not healthy for children. And I consider teenagers to be children.

Answer 9

What good will grounding do it wont stop them education is the key talking to them and understanding their curiosity which we all have/had at their age. Now they have porn in their living rooms in the form of the internet we had it as a playboy/playgirl. I see no harm it is a safe release as long as there is no violence/beastiality . The thumbs down are coming I can feel them but hey I looked at it at a young age (and still do now) so how can i judge my child that would be hypocritical now wouldn't it. (age appropriate im assuming this question is focused at 14yrs and over )

Answer 10

I saw my parents porn at a very young age (4) i have only had damage from it in my life. I think that it's bad for any child (no matter what their age) to view. I think it's hurt every relationship i've been in, I've had sexual problems because i view sex as not as a loving thing but more like a drug..i'm addicted. I think you should get rid of it and never look back. just my opinion.

Answer 11

Yes, I think that is appropriate.



There is a natural curiosity about sex so I can understand the attraction -- however porn does not convey a positive or healthy message concerning sex. Children who are still developing may get the wrong 'message' concerning sex from porn -- and this could potentially be confusing or even lead to misunderstandings if your sexual expectations are developed from the porn you see.

Answer 12

Umm I wouldn't ground my kid I would be happier than them going out and having sex but that's just me, then I wouldn't like push them to watch it and also don't let them know you know as long as they don't become obsessed or anything it saves a possible weird relationship between you guys. It should be fine but that is only my opinion hope I helped.

Answer 13

I agree with the first answer. Who does it hurt if they see it? Every kid is going to do it sometime, it is not really that big of a deal. I would suggest not confronting them about it if they are over 12 years old because it would be extremely awkward for your kid.

Answer 14

NO! It's called "contributing to the delinquency of a minor" and punishable by law. Next call to Department of Children and Family Services to have the kids removed from the home due to its unhealthy environment.



My kid wouldn't be grounded....just put into therapy. It's the start of an unhealthy habit and lack of respect towards women.

Answer 15

I think parents need to take this very seriously. Porn victimizes and belittles women. Young boys and girls need to understand that what they are seeing on the screen is not realistic and that they should never treat women / allow themselves to be treated like that.

Answer 16

it depends on how old the kid is...ifs hes 14 or older hes gonna watch porn no matter what.....if hes younger than 14 i dont think the child should be watching porn.

Answer 17

Based on most mainstream religions, pornography (even just viewing) is considered immorial. So while obvioulsy no parent should promote immoratilty, but they also can not tollerate it, at least not in their own home. Yes, people have the right to make their own moral choises, but when you're under my roof, you are under my morals.

Answer 18

Depends on how old the kid is and if it is a repetitive thing. If they are young and they watch it once explain they don't need to be watching that. Now if they are a teenager and get caught more than once,take action on it.

Answer 19

(Coming from a 12 year old) No, you shouldn't ground them but you should find ways to keep the porn from them. Not always though, you should only kept it from them if it is:

A) Against your family's morals

B) Against your religion

Otherwise, well, just forget it happened.

Answer 20

As the parent, its up to you and how you feel about it. Porn is relatively harmless so if you have no issue with it, ignore it. If you have any type of issue, site your child down and talk about it.

Answer 21

I dont tink I would ground my 17 year old. But if they were 14, then yes I would.

Answer 22

I think it would depend on their age. For older teens I would let it slide. If they are younger I would sit down and have a little talk but I don't think I would punish them. After all it's just curiosity.

Answer 23

welll i guess it depends on how old they are.

most teenage guys look at porn so its not really a big deal.

if they're being obsessive about it maybe you should look into

getting them some help.

or if its like kiddie porn, then you should send their *** to jail

Answer 24

Most definitely whether it be on the internet, friends house, or HBO, i would ground and get rid of the sources. I know you can't watch them 24 / 7 but you can control it in your home.

Answer 25

depends on how old they are....I never cared about my sons stash of porn when he was 17.

Answer 26

not ground them,....but take appropriate measures,... like put parental Controls on their computer.

Answer 27

No, porn is a sin.

Answer 28

No, porn is a very convenient way to learn how it is done.

Answer 29

I would absolutely ground them! Porn is a menace to our society and it has become very over rated and it's filth! I would ground them before they start making porn a habit!

Answer 30

depends on the age, the type of pornography...etc.....it's normal...but i'd probably tell my kid to try and get a girl instead....

Answer 31

I dunno, I'm torn on this one. I think a conversation is definitely in order. A lot depends on the age of the teen in question.

Answer 32

No what sick parent would let their child watch that crap.

Answer 33

I got a g1

Answer 34

yes, they should because that is very nasty for thier age and they will think about girls or boys pussy, or dick lolzz and they will think about sex..