My husband has a kid with my sister. She is a drug addict and I have been raising him as my own.?

Question

He calls me mommy now and I know when he gets older she will try and turn him against me. How do I deal with knowing im raising my sisters child as my own?

Answer 1

How's your realtionship wiht your sister? If you realtionship with your sister is good then ask her to let you adopt him, oyu have been rasining him as your own so he jsut sees you like his mom how old is he if young it's ok ? but when he gets older just let hinm understand the difference i was raised by my grandma but when i got older my grandma told me the truth of me having a biological mother i still called my grandma Mom no one ever said not to cause they knew!



I Dont know what to say but that sometimes you have to make decisions yourself and make sure you decide wisely.

Answer 2

It's amazing that no one has said that you must have a very strange relationship for your husband to have a baby with your sister...



If you want to continue raising the child, try getting legal custody...

Answer 3

im not a counseler or anything, but i would try and see if your sister would let you adopt him and have her sign the papers, then she can't take him away cause you would be his legal parent just not biological. Sorry if this doesn't help much im only 15, but i'll pray for you.